Will These Arguments Ever Stop You woke up this morning, feeling hurt and frustrated from the argument the night before with your husband. You usually enjoy your morning coffee and a little meditation. But this morning you’re feeling like you’re just going through the motions of getting ready for work because you’re feeling grumpy and …
My Wife is Always Telling Me What I Am Thinking and Feeling This question comes from someone who was listening to our Jesse and Melva Live Podcast on May 17, 2020, when we covered the second of three fundamentals for success in love, marriage, and life; “Be Understanding” was the topic. — Dear Jesse …
How to Calm Down During Conflict Dear Jesse and Melva, I’ve been listening to your podcasts and wondering if you can help me out with a situation I am experiencing in my marriage. You see, I love my wife. And, as you have mentioned in your podcasts, I wonder how can one stop reacting …
All This Conflict is Stressful Dear Jesse and Melva, I’ve been reading your “BeAttitudes” and wonder how they apply to the stress of intense conflict. We, like many couples, argue way too much. How can two people who love each other cause so much agony for each other? Well, I think my wife still …
I Want My Husband to Grow With Me Dear Jesse and Melva, I have been reading your “Be Attitudes” on social media for the past several weeks. Although I have not joined your private Facebook group (something I plan to do in the near future), I am curious about how to encourage my spouse …
I’m Not a Priority Anymore Dear Jesse and Melva, You probably have heard this complaint from spouses who have been together for a while. Here’s mine. I have fond memories of the early years of our relationship when my wife took the time to make sure that I felt like a priority to her. …
My Wife is Controlling and I’m Fed Up Dear Jesse and Melva, I’m sure you have heard about this problem before, so I’m sure you can give me some advice. You see, not only does my wife always tell me what to do, she insists that I do when she wants and how she …
Valentine’s Day is Over, What’s Next? Dear Jesse and Melva, I am writing because I have been thinking about Valentine’s Day. Yes, my husband was very generous. We had a lovely, romantic day and evening. While I appreciate what we did for that day, we are back to normal. What I mean is he has …
I Love Her, But Sometimes I Just Don’t Like Her Dear Jesse and Melva, I have been married for 22 years. Most of the time, when we have been together, has been pretty good to Ok. Things would be better if my wife would show me a little more support. I have worked tirelessly …
How Do I Get Over My Resentment? Dear Jesse and Melva: I recently listened to your podcast about getting over resentment in marriage and realized that I am one of those people who has built up resentments about something that occurred a few years ago that didn’t get resolved. You see, I am married to …