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Tip for Success in Love, Marriage, and Life: Honor Your Commitments Commitment. wilson-sanchez-tL9dekPndHM-unsplash Being faithful to your vows to “forsake all others” is basic because it is an essential ingredient in building and maintaining a foundation of trust. It also includes a sincere resolve — a commitment — to being ones very best self and to …

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Are You Feeling Lonely? Another humdrum day at work.  It’s the end of the day.  You have errands to run before going home and a meal to prepare shortly after you arrive. During the meal, there is little to no conversation.  Your spouse is watching tv with his fork in one hand and the remote …

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These Arguments are Destroying Our Relationship! You just had another argument.  The bad news is you haven’t gotten over the one you had before or the ones before that.  Nothing was resolved, not this time, nor all the times before. You’re feeling frustrated, angry, and disappointed.  You wish you could just make up and move …

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Why Won’t She Stop Nagging Me? Here is a story I have heard over and over:   “Here we go again, another argument.  She’s nagging me again. All I wanted to do was to come home and relax.  I had a tough day and needed a break. Did that happen? No! As soon as I …

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How Can I Get You to Talk to Me? You just had an argument and although both of you are still in the same room, there is an icy silence. You still want to talk about what happened and what went wrong. You’re wondering how you can bring up the issue in a way that …

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Do you ever wonder why you lose your cool when you get angry? Are there times when your spouse consistently says or does something irritating that frustrates you?  Maybe as soon as you get home you are bombarded with complaints about something you did wrong the day before.  Or possibly you rushed to pick up …

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Will These Arguments Ever Stop You woke up this morning, feeling hurt and frustrated from the argument the night before with your husband. You usually enjoy your morning coffee and a little meditation. But this morning you’re feeling like you’re just going through the motions of getting ready for work because you’re feeling grumpy and …

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