Are You Feeling Lonely?
Another humdrum day at work. It’s the end of the day. You have errands to run before going home and a meal to prepare shortly after you arrive.
During the meal, there is little to no conversation. Your spouse is watching tv with his fork in one hand and the remote in the other. Each time you invite a small conversation like, “How was your day?”, you get a short answer. “It was okay”, then his eyes dart back to the tv screen – engrossed in the evening news.
You are hoping that after the dishes are in the dishwasher that maybe there will be an opportunity to have a little snuggle time to reconnect. And wouldn’t you know it, he’s sound asleep, the remote still in his hand.
It would be one this if this happened once in a while, but over the past several months, this has become the norm.
You’re wondering, what happened to us? It wasn’t this way in the beginning. He was always happy to see me and couldn’t keep his hands off of me, and now, all he does his wrap his hand around that damn remote.
Does he still love me? Does he still want to be with me? I am feeling so lonely. He comes home every night, but he’s not here with me.
What do I have to look forward to, another humdrum evening at home as well as another humdrum day at work tomorrow?
What can I do?
Is this a question you are asking yourself?
If your answer is yes, there is certainly something you can do.
You can both schedule a complimentary telephone call with me:
During that call, you will discover the very first step to communicating to your spouse about your feelings of loneliness in a way they can hear. You will get a glimpse of what is going on with your mate as well. They we will have a conversation about what can be done about it.
When you click on the link below, you’ll have instant access to my calendar so we can get started as soon as possible.
If you can’t find a time that works for you on the calendar, just hit reply to this note with some times that work for you and we will work it out.
Warm regards,
Melva Johnson